Hurt hurts right? But which one hurts more; letting someone go because you don’t want to hurt them…or getting let go because the person doesn’t want to hurt you? The crazy part about all of this is that everyone gets hurt in the end. I’ll explain later. But this topic came to me after watching […]

Fly outs are so real huh? You really like him/her huh? But can you afford it…huh? Money. Does money matter? To an extent, yes. Money isn’t everything but you surely can be screwed without it. I’ve traveled around the world. I’ve met tons of guys and exchanged social media information in order to stay in […]

I’ve never had a guy support me as much, or even more than I have supported him. As women, we are known to be the cheerleaders. To whoop and holler in the stands for not only our mates, our children, our friends, even our animals lol. I know I have made posters for my male […]

I was getting ready and I heard my sister say, “Are you talking to yourself?” Well yes…yes I was, and wasn’t ashamed at all. She mentioned how people usually whisper when they’re talking to themselves, but oh not I; I was talking on a normal level. If this was 2 years ago, I would deny […]

I haven’t written a relationship type blog in yearsssss, considering the fact that I haven’t liked anyone in years. Writing is the only thing that I’ve noticed that allows me to let it leave my mind completely. So here I go (it’s 6,808 words, so don’t read it if you have something to do or […]

If you look over to the right side of the page, you will see an embedded player for RnB And Things. RnB And Things is an R&B only internet radio station that I started. My station includes R&B, and artists that may not be 100% R&B, but you can tell they were influenced by the […]

I was driving down the highway when I figured I’d give a listen to Cheryl’s latest album “Only Human”. The intro was this man (Alan Watts audio below) talking about how he suggests that you find out what you’d want to do in life if money was no object. Basically if money is the reason […]

R&B is dying, and it seems like no one cares or they just aren’t speaking up enough. I WHOLE HEARTINGLY LOVE R&B TO MY CORE! So why would I want it to go away? The only time you can hear a good selection of R&B on the radio is when you turn it to an […]

After college I had every intention to get a job in an office and work; you know the way most parents want to see their child. That didn’t quite happen for me. Growing up I always said I wanted to work in Movies, Music and Fashion. Marketing was something I picked up since my dad […]

Let me start off by saying that each generation gets worse and worse for many different reasons. My generation was/is bad, but this next generation is fucking ridiculous! Twerking is nothing new at all! We just called it booty shaking; but it wasn’t the phenomenon that it is now. Now, these heffas are out here […]

What is big hair and who gets to classify what big hair is? Is big hair out of style or is it not looked at as a trend? Is big hair not professional, or does it depend upon the demographic one resides in? I tend to switch between flat ironing my hair to make it […]

Christmas means a lot of things to many different people. Most people I know see Christmas as the birth of baby Jesus. I’m not going to go into the religion thing because many believe that Jesus was not really born on December 25th, and I haven’t got to the New Testament in my Bible readings…so […]

I don’t know why people think they can have a growing/successful relationship with someone when they’re broke. When I speak about being broke, I’m speaking of time and money. You can be rich and buy your partner everything, but if you only show your face every three months, then that relationship will eventually come crashing […]

When people ask me do I still talk to “such and such” and I reply with a “no”…there is always the inevitable “why”. They think I hate the person, have some ill-feelings toward them. I actually don’t hate anyone surprisingly, even though I could bring up valid reasons to “justify” hating certain people. Hating someone […]

I just wish people were smart enough to know when to get out of a relationship that isn’t good for them before it gets too deep. Many times people try to “work it out” when it’s nothing that needs to be worked out. Sometimes things happen and the aftermath should be to let the relationship […]