I’d Gladly Help Win Back Real Love

I don’t date a lot of people, especially don’t get into relationships with a lot of people; but that doesn’t mean I don’t believe in love. I’ve been in love once and I know it does exist. I’m talking about being IN love with someone, not just loving someone. Before someone mentions “well if she was in love, why aren’t they still together?” It’s because I was very young and I grew up and changed as a person. Yes, we did try again but I was no longer IN love, I realized I just loved him and those are two totally different things, but as I digress. I believe in real love; not that fake we break up and get back together 50,000 times and still experience the same problems. When someone I know breaks up with someone, no matter if they are a best friend or just a social network friend, I have no problem talking to them trying to convince them not to give up. Now, if the person is totally no good for them, I don’t even try, but if this is some “Notebook”, Mary J. Blige ♫Real Love♫, then I’m all for it. I don’t mind helping out females or males. I’m so serious about it to the point that if someone I knew was with an ex of mines, and I could see how much they love each other, I would help them out as well. You should want to see people with someone that makes them happy as long as it’s not harming them. Love is severely hard to find, especially these days when everyone is unfaithful and hoeing around. When you find real love, of course there will be ups and downs, but you have to keep it going. Some people may never get to fall in love twice. I say that because people tend to feel “there’s only one soul mate on the planet for you”, which is totally not true, it’s just harder to discover the second and sometimes third person. I’m not going to put a limit on how many times you can fall in love because that would be unfair of me. But once again, it’s a difference being falling IN love, and just loving some. People should have some type of signal that helps them comprehend when they are truly in love. Okay, I’ve never told anyone but I’ll tell you guys mine, and you all better not laugh. Lol. My heart will turn into a compass, okay stop laughing because I know you all are laughing already lol. It’ll feel like my heart is trying to rip out of my chest and go in the direction of where ever the person is. If I don’t feel that action, then I know I’m not in love. I may care about that person a lot of even love them, but definitely not in love. Anyway, like I said, I’m willing to help keep real love together and lend an open ear and advice if I have it. I’m not going to say I know everything because I don’t, but I’ve been through a lot in my relationships. I can pass along things I’ve learned and the things that I could have done to make it work or things the other party could have done to make it work. At the end of the day, people like being hooked on this drug called love and it’s okay to feed their addiction, if it’s a good one.

P.S. No I’m not contradicting myself on my blog posts. Of course I’m not good with love because there isn’t a dude out there that has met my standard and most likely won’t; I don’t want to have kids or get married. But at the end of the day, just because all hope is lost for me, that doesn’t mean I can’t help anyone else especially when all hope is there.