You Are Better Than That
“I can so bad all by myself” had become a cliché line but it is true. This post is especially one for woman that I know. Why do some women get a new man that was 10 times worse than their old one? Yes, there were some qualities that you didn’t like about him but you’re worse off with the new guy. Everything you said you didn’t want in a man is exactly all this new guy is about. If you see signs that it’s not going to work early on in the relationship, then why marry him?! No one has the power to change someone; they have to be willing to change. Obviously he was not willing to change and you’re ignorant to think you have the power to make him change. Should have learned that if you couldn’t change any guy before him, then why would this one be different. The past is in the past, but the past must never be forgotten. If he was a thief, why would you think he would stop thieving because you came along? He will still steal from you, whether is physically, mentally, or emotionally; it’s still stealing. Did you even ask why his other relationships didn’t work out? Maybe that would have been a good place to start interviewing him at before you hired him to be your companion. Just because he is younger than you don’t mean that you can mold him. People were set in their ways as a child and there’s nothing you can do about that. And that scratch that appeared on your face will turn into an imprint from his hand, and then a black eye from his fist. Once you have accepted it the first time, it will continue. As let’s not mention how he only comes around when you have something; news flash: Males can be gold digger’s too! He’s a pathetic excuse of a man if your son does more and contributes more than he does. No man’s penis should make you lose your damn mind to the point that you don’t notice that. You’re letting his sex show your younger daughter that a sorry excuse of a man is acceptable and normal. Young lady that is no okay and don’t follow in your mother’s footsteps because yes, you can do bad all by yourself!
P.S. The tears you cry alone in solitude so no one can see you do you no justice. You will not be a failure if you let go. I promise you when you do that your tears/frustration will stop as well.