Status
I was always aware that females treat males different because of what they have. I’ve been around celebrities and I’ve seen it first hand, but I guess it’s seen as a different eye-opener when it’s one of your friend’s who parents just happen to be well off. My friend just received the car pictured above and I can see the difference as plain as day in big bold letters. I stay in apartments on campus, and he was coming to pick me up so we could hang out. While I was walking to the front of the apartments all I was thinking is “I hope he didn’t bring the Mercedes. He could use his other regular “American-made” car. Lol. I was waiting, standing there wearing a nice romper with a suit jacket and some pumps; looking nice. On the outside looking in you’d probably think, “O she probably stuck up, spoiled, think she all-that, etc,” because I’ve heard it all before. In the distance I see a white car and I know it’s him in that freakin’ Mercedes, and here comes the mumbles. I know how females thing; “She must be a hoe. That’s probably her sugar daddy”….this that and the third. I’m just thinking “Omgee I’m just trying to go kick it with a friend.” As I get in the car, out of the group of females, it was a guy with them that said “Have a good time.” Really? I’ve hopped into friends’ cars that were Toyotas, Hondas, etc and never had to hear none of that or get those looks. Out of the blue I ask my friend “So how are the hoes?” He tells me stories about how females just jump into his car like they know him; like literally open the door just because they see a nice car and hop in not caring about who it is. I’m like come on! These Houston girls have no class; they’re not used to this. They need to get some training from the L.A. groupies. Lol. So we’re rolling and we find ourselves in the valet section part of this club because he was trying to catch up to his friend that was in the car ahead of him. I don’t do people coming up to people’s cars to open the door. That happened one time when I was with my older sister and she locked the doors, because we don’t play that. (It’s hilarious; you should try it by the way). But I remember my older sister using valet before in Downtown Dallas as a fancy hotel and I promise you, they only opened up the driver’s door and left me to open my own door. I guess you can say it’s because she had a Honda. But this time, my friend couldn’t even get out the car fast enough before I saw a man making his way to open my door. I low-key panicked. Lmao! I don’t like people “rollin-up” on me, and definitely don’t touch my door. I didn’t know how to lock his doors so I was stuck with the door half open trying to tell the attendant I’m not getting out. It’s weird because I know I’m spoiled, but I’m not that spoiled. Having certain things (in this instance it’s a nice car) people wait on your hand and foot. I don’t like that. Status….status can be changed by a material thing which in turn changes the actions that are presented towards you. I don’t like it not one bit. It’s one thing having fake friends because of what you have; you know the ones that only tell you yes and do whatever you want hoping to get a piece of your pie. But it’s different having almost everyone you come in contact with treat you like that; someone you know or don’t know. When the night ended I told him to drop me off in the back of my apartments. He said he felt like I was hiding him from something. I told him I wasn’t; I just don’t want to be associated with a car. Don’t want to be seen to females as “that female that got out of a bomb ass Mercedes, so I wonder who was in the car, and if I get to her I can get to him.” Yes it may seem as if I’m over thinking it but I’ve seen it happen too many times. Geesh! I don’t want to wonder how it is for girlfriends/wives that are connected to a guy with nice things or have a certain status. That must suck “monk balls”. HA!